Choose- Your man or Your friend!

Have you ever had to choose between your man or your friend?


1st scenario- Have you ever felt a DISTANCE between you and one of your friends? I think there should never be a reason that a true friend should be put on the back burner, or forgotten because of a man. Men come and go. Whether it's today, tomorrow, or 20 years- no relationship is promised! Friends (true friends) are always around. I just find it quite interesting how people that you've known forever, suddenly don't feel the need for your presence after they meet/find a "man".

2nd scenario- Do you ever feel the urge to NOT want to talk to your friend because of her man? You try to be a good friend and listen, but the stories get so hard to listen to by the minute! You just want to say WAKE UP! But you can't. Because you are a friend. But doesn't it get quite tiresome?

Are we, as women, really this desperate? LAWD, please help us! Let's talk about it. Tell me about your experiences!! Post your comments!