@ Tru

Whoa.... A whole lot going on here. However, your main concern is you and your child. There are many signs here, that I'm sure you have already seen. I don't need to reiterate any of that. Bottom line, LOVE YOURSELF! Always remember that people treat you the way that you allow them to treat you. If he thinks it's okay to get married on you and not consider your feelings, is that love? Only give your all to someone who is willing to give their all to you. You're worth more than that. Concentrate on being a great mom, single or not, your child is the subject matter now. I know it won't be easy at all to let go, but remember not only is he treating you unfairly, but your soon to be son will also be treated this way. Is that okay?