Recently, I was hit with a situation that proved my maturity! At one time in my life I would have been ready to call and go off! But I SMH, calmly laughed, and decided that I would no longer talk to certain individuals. At one point in your life, aren't you SUPPOSED to grow up? I use to feel so bad that I didn't have the same friends, but in life, I think that's a given that you outgrow people. The sad thing is, I never talk about anyone (anymore) because I have so much more to talk about in regards to my own life. I have come to the conclusion that just because you've known an individual for 20+ years, does not constitute a friendship. You really have to wonder about people who misconstrue statements JUST so that they will have something to talk about. Grow up people!
Have you ever had to cut some people loose? Let's talk about it! Post what you think.
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everyone has to do some pruning at sometime in their life. everybody does!
I've been fortunate tht my longtime friendships for the most part have remained intact. It's the new friendsips tht start out blooming beauifully then you notice they have a disease! lo at which you point you cut your losses and call it a day!
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